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We honor Father's Day Weekend with this Special Edition, giving you time to reflect on and share articles through the weekend. 

Celebrating Father’s Day when Dad is on hospice Roze Room Hospice, Culver City, CA; retrieved from www.rozeroom.org on 6/12/25Father’s Day is often synonymous with backyard cookouts, gifts, cards and large family gatherings. Honoring your father or a father figure means celebrating the role this important person has played in your life. It can be a sentimental day where we slow down and consider the gift this person has been in our lives. But if your father is in hospice care, Father’s Day can take on even more significance. You may believe the day will be filled with sadness and unease. But truly capturing this day will be a gift to your dad and all those who love him. Here are five ways to celebrate Father’s Day when your dad is on hospice.

Couple marry in ICU an hour before bride’s father takes his last breath Our Community Now, North Providence, RI; by OCN staff; 8/22/24, published in our newsletter 9/1/24A Rhode Island hospital held an emergency wedding that had to be performed before the bride’s father died from muscular dystrophy. Sabrina Silveira-DaCosta says her father, 58-year-old Frank Silveira, was Portuguese-born and raised, a serious chef and a five-star dad. ... With Silveira’s health rapidly declining, his family realized he wasn’t going to make it his daughter’s wedding on Sep. 7, so plans changed. “Everyone was able to bring the wedding to him in the hospital, and he got to walk me down the aisle,” Silveira-DaCosta said. From his intensive care unit bed, Silveira escorted his daughter down the hospital hallway Monday into the hands of her fiancé, Sam DaCosta. ... Silveira-DaCosta’s father died about an hour after he walked her down the aisle. “It’s very complex. It’s a lot of emotion. Our community hospitals don’t get enough credit because any big hospital couldn’t have done this for us,” she said.

Hospice Brazos Valley launches ‘Christmas in July’ wreath campaign Victoria Advocate, Victoria, TX; by Nick Irene; 6/9/25 Hospice Brazos Valley is bringing holiday cheer a little early this year with its first-ever “Christmas in July” fundraising campaign, aimed at raising money to support its nonprofit mission of providing free end-of-life care. ...  “We gave away over $250,000 in free care last year,” [Coleen Broussard, Hospice Brazos Valley’s director of donor relations and special events] said. “Whether it’s the last hours, days or months, we make sure families are cared for without ever worrying about a bill. That’s only possible because of fundraising efforts like this.” The “Christmas in July” campaign offers three types of Christmas wreaths for preorder. Prices vary depending on the item and the purchase date, with early orders in July costing less than those made in October. All wreaths can be picked up at either the Brenham or La Grange office closer to the holiday season.

Lanterns light up the sky in east Wichita to remember lost loved ones on Memorial Day ABC KAKE, Wichita, KS; by Jocelyn Schifferdecker; 5/26/25 About a hundred lanterns lit up the sky Monday night at the Harry Hynes Memorial Hospice memory garden in East Wichita. Each lantern floating on the water told its own special story. [Candace] Dudley says [her husband] Ricky died about a year and a half ago from colon cancer. ... She says she misses him every day and she's thankful for Lanterns of Life because it gave her an opportunity to remember him. "My heart is full tonight. Making his lanyard, I made it very special ... I did all four sides with a lot of thought and put a lot of love into it because he was the love of my life," she said while holding back tears.The event is arranged by Harry Hynes Memorial Hospice. Organizers say they hope lighting a lantern for their lost loved one will bring them peace in some way. ... The event also featured food trucks, music, and more. This was the first year the hospice held it but it says it doesn't plan for it to be the last.

Veterans honored ahead of Memorial Day with picnic hosted by Hospice of Texarkana KSLA-TV 12, Shreveport, LA; by Fred Gamble; 5/17/25 Hospice of Texarkana held its third annual Veterans Appreciation Picnic Friday (May 16) honoring the service and sacrifice of area military veterans and their families. Organizers said with Memorial Day just around the corner, the event gave attendees a time to relax and connect with each other. 

Memorial Day: 3:00 pm National Moment of RemembranceUSMilitary.com - A non-government, privately sponsored website; retrieved from the internet 5/22/25The day is not just about looking back but also about engaging with the present and future. It provides an opportunity for communities and individuals across the nation to come together in a shared spirit of remembrance. ... This year, as we commemorate Memorial Day, we invite you to join us in honoring the legacy of our heroes through active participation and thoughtful reflection. ... At 3:00 PM local time on Memorial Day, Americans are encouraged to pause for a moment of silence to remember and honor the fallen. The National Moment of Remembrance is a collective act of unity, acknowledging the sacrifices made for our country. Whether you are at home, at a parade, or spending time with family, take a moment to reflect on the true meaning of the day. This simple yet profound gesture serves as a nationwide expression of gratitude and respect.

9 common Memorial Day weekend hazards that are dangerous for pets Kinship; by Dr. Shea Cox, DVM, CVPP, CHPV; 5/23/25 Memorial Day marks the (technically unofficial) start of summer. We grill, we camp out at the local parade, we take our first dips in the pool, and we generally allow vitamin D back into our lives. But before the merriment begins, there are a few concerns that pet parents should keep in mind. Otherwise, they could end up spending the long weekend in the ER waiting room while their pet is treated for an array of holiday-induced emergencies. ...  Just follow these nine tips to keep tabs on your pet this Memorial Day weekend, so the only thing you have to worry about is not burning the burgers. ...

[Pre-Memorial Day Outreach] Hospice of Texarkana to host Veterans Appreciation Picnic on Friday Texarkana Gazette, Texarkana, TX; by Gazette Staff; 5/14/25 Hospice of Texarkana will have its third annual Veterans Appreciation Picnic from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Friday at the Hospice of Texarkana Care Center grounds, ... The picnic is open to all current and former members of the U.S. Armed Forces ... The picnic not only celebrates veterans but also fosters community, allowing attendees to connect, share stories, and relax in a supportive and respectful environment, according to a news release. Guests will enjoy complimentary lunch and beverages and are encouraged to bring lawn chairs for outdoor seating. "As part of our 'We Honor Veterans' program, this event reflects our deep appreciation for the sacrifices made by our nation's heroes," said Cynthia Marsh, executive director of Hospice of Texarkana. "With Memorial Day around the corner, it's a meaningful time to come together in honor and reflection."Editor's note: What great community outreach!

How to survive Mother’s Day when your mom is gone Psychology Today - Dementia; by Deborah Carr, PhD; 5/8/25 ... By age 50, about half of us have mourned the death of our mother. More than 4 million older women in the U.S. have dementia, and most have children who are witnessing their cognitive declines. Whether your mother has died or slipped into the grip of late-stage dementia, Mother's Day can be hard, although the sharp pangs of sadness tend to fade with time after a mom's death. So, how do you survive Mother’s Day when your mom isn't here to celebrate with you?

'The Grief Lady:' NC woman uses mother's funeral flowers to create art, help others heal WRAL TV News, Raleigh, NC; by Heather Leah; 4/18/24, posted in our newsletter 4/29/24  Grief is a journey--and you never know for sure where it'll take you. When Janet Willis' mom passed away from small cell lung cancer in her 70s, Willis said she felt like she lost more than a mother; she lost a piece of herself. The loss launched her on a 100 day journey, creating art with the dried flower petals saved from her mother's funeral and sharing her grief experience with her followers. Each day she created a new piece of art – and each day it's as much a surprise for her as it is for her viewers. [See photos.]

10 ways to embrace Mother’s Day with a seriously ill mother Roze Room Hospice, Culver City, CA; Website; retrieved from the internet 5/8/2025Spending Mother’s Day with a seriously ill mother can be emotional, but it’s also an opportunity to create meaningful and loving memories. Here are 10 ways to embrace Mother’s Day with a seriously ill mother: