Death, taxes, and talking to your parents: Why the conversation you’re avoiding might save your family

06/16/25 at 03:00 AM

Death, taxes, and talking to your parents: Why the conversation you’re avoiding might save your family
Psychology Today; by Nancy J. Kislin, LCSW, MFT; 6/11/25
Key points:

  • Most families avoid care talks—until crisis hits. Start the conversation before it’s too late.
  • Reframe the topic: It’s not about death; it’s about how your parents want to live and be cared for.
  • Gentle, curious questions open doors. Ask about values, not just logistics.
  • These talks can deepen connection—not just prepare for the future, but strengthen your bond today.
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