Terminally ill woman, 35, cancels plans - best friend’s reaction backed
Terminally ill woman, 35, cancels plans - best friend’s reaction backed
Miami Herald, Miami, FL; by Lydia Patrick, Newsweek Life; 6/5/25
A woman has sparked an outpouring of support online after admitting she felt relieved when her terminally ill best friend canceled their remaining plans. The anonymous Reddit user, ... shared her emotional experience ... where her confession received over 8,000 upvotes and hundreds of comments. She explained that her best friend, Sarah, 35, had been diagnosed with an aggressive form of pancreatic cancer and her condition rapidly worsened. ... In an effort to make the most of her time, Sarah created an ambitious bucket list, which included a trip to the coast, a party, and a final hike to her favorite mountain. However, after halting treatment, she transitioned into hospice care and most of the planned activities were either canceled or significantly scaled back. ... [Serving as primary caregiver, she wrote,] "And I'm relieved. I'm utterly, profoundly ashamed to admit it, but I'm exhausted. Mentally, emotionally, financially. ..." ... Dr. Terri Daniel, a grief counselor and hospice chaplain at Forest Park Hospice, told Newsweek the Redditor's experience is not uncommon and far from selfish.